相处。学问

相敬容易，相处难。
(I forget whether it's 相见or相敬. haha)
Some people might look nice to mix around or to live together, but the reality oftenly opposes that.
They might look nice to you and give you the friendly impression.
However as time passed, you will eventually have clear view on the personalities.
Maybe you could say that you've known them for their personalities, the weaknesses, bare in mind that you have to endure it for some period of time.
It's not just a couple of days, it's several MONTHS!
Well, just endure, endure and ENDURE!
The bright future lies ahead of you :)
cheerss~~~

Time.Decision.

In the same timezone, but you just seem far far away from me, like from another planet.

I couldn't understand why you did that.

Perhaps it's some kind of test God sends to us.

I feel so suffering everyday seeing your updates, likes, comments, shares, yet I couldn't get any response from you.

My 1st instinct from that: You're avoiding me!

Why?! Reasons??

1) You're busy? But why I still can see your updates!

2) You didn't read my messages? You've seen my messages.

3) You forgot to reply my messages? You did reply others messages!

Conclusion: You're really avoiding me. And I couldn't get the reason behind it.

Everytime, whenever relationship topics are discussed, I'll surely think of you.

I miss you. I miss every moment spending with you. I miss teasing, chatting, talking with you.

21 Materialians

21 different kind of people from different places and background get to sit down and study in a room. It be said that this is awesome and exciting. You get to know different cultures all around this Boleh-land and share experiences around you. Though you can gain knowledge and things that you would have never come to, there're also problems encountered. To squeeze 21 people in a gang to live together for 4 years, it's quite impossible. There're several things that frustrate me over this 1.5 years, still there are 2.5 years ahead of me.

1) Selfishness
No harm to get the best for yourselves, take the best and keep it as secret. But, remember, we live in a group, you need us, maybe not now, but surely in the future.

2) Irresponsibility
Being responsible as committee members in any society doesn't mean that you're a responsible person. Responsibility is shown to the society, family, friends, studies and yourself. What is the point if you're just responsible to a small portion of people and things?

3) Taking things for granted
Bear in mind that I'm not the one who should lend you my hands when you need it and just leave me there when you don't need me. I have my own life too. I don't carry the responsibility to do anything for you except those I am appointed to. Show some appreciation to people that help you, even they didn't really ask for. Poor is not an excuse.

4) Turning down invitations with ridiculous reasons
If you're really poor, please stop wasting money on unnecessary and non-benefit activities. Save the money for the sake of poor-ness. Whenever being rejected with these unacceptable reasons, people tend to ignore you. Don't blame others.

Although these might be small things happen around, yet I find that it is essential to correct them. Of course, I do have some weakness. I don't expect everyone would treat me good. Please, give me some strength to continue living in this small society.